Sweet, Savory, and In Between: Lai Rai Brings Hanoi's Old Quarter to the Lower East Side
May 2025
It’s sound, not sight, that answers these questions. The unexpected lilt of Vietnamese new wave music floats above the symphony of conversation, clinking glasses, and distinctive ping of spoons against metal cups. Here, under amber-warm lighting, patrons are captured in moments suspended in time and in between cultures.
Lai Rai emerged in the Manhattan dining scene in Fall 2024 as a Vietnamese natural wine bar. "My wife picked the name,” shares co-owner Jerald Head, “it translates to 'little by little.’” The literal translation, however, misses the nuances of Vietnamese slang. Colloquially, lai rai refers to the moments spent with friends and family sipping drinks, nibbling snacks, and letting time unspool.
This philosophy manifests most prominently in Lai Rai’s signature offering: surprising ice cream flavors, served in elegant silver coupes. Does savory strike your fancy? Choose from bites of umami giò thủ (its galactic pattern mirrors the locale’s marble bartop), a bowl of chicharron, or a classic round of prawn crackers.
However, one setback subsisted: Mắm’s location fell within proximity of a local school, and the duo wasn't allowed to obtain a liquor license. Then, vacant real estate sprang up down the block. The Mắm duo took it as an opportunity to create a space for something new.
Lai Rai is collectively owned between Jerald Head and his former bosses, Kim Hoang and Tuan Bui of Greenpoint's Di An Di. Following the success of both Di An Di and Mắm, Jerald, Kim, and Tuan travelled across Europe and Asia, collecting inspiration along the way. For Jerald—a professional already with 17 years in the restaurant industry—his travels gave him an even more pronounced appreciation for wine. He recalls Folderol, a humble locale in Paris, serving a pairing that simply blew him away: a glass of Sauvignon Blanc with ice cream.
Paris offered the conventional flavors of chocolate and Concord Grape—Lai Rai chose to steer these gastronomical ideas in a decidedly Vietnamese direction. "If we were going to be a Vietnamese wine bar, it's important we're serving Vietnamese flavors," Jerald shared. This meant working with savory Vietnamese flavors. “As you could imagine, Southeast Asians don’t enjoy their sweets too sweet; this made it easy to do earthy tones that pair well with the wine."
Paris offered the conventional flavors of chocolate and Concord Grape — Lai Rai chose to steer these gastronomical ideas in a decidedly Vietnamese direction.
On Lai Rai’s wine list, you’ll find the classic French and Italian wines. Yet, its rice wines are its pièce de résistance. Lai Rai works closely with Sông Cái, a distinctly Vietnamese distillery. Complementary to the expected Japanese sake and Korean rice wine (sourced from Akishika Shuzo and Brooklyn’s Hana Makgeolli respectively), Lai Rai is one of the few places in the U.S. to serve Vietnamese rice wine.
Speaking on Sông Cái’s practices, Jerald remarks, "It's original, and it is uplifting for their community in Vietnam, employing local folks, and changing their lives. Giving them some type of royalty for whatever product they may forge for their wines."
"I've always seen ice cream as a blank canvas to explore and be adventurous with," Jerald notes.
Fish sauce caramel ice cream is the perfect metaphor for this generation's approach to cultural inheritance: we preserve the essence while transforming the form.
It’s these pleasant contrasts—hot and cold, sweet and acidic, familiar and foreign—that create the distinctive alchemy of Lai Rai’s menu. With the unexpected sweetness of fish sauce on your tongue, the haunting melodies of Vietnamese Bolero tickling your ears, and the flicker of vintage Saigon streetscapes projected on the wall, Lai Rai entertains all the senses.
In the back of the bar, visuals project against the wall. Films by the celebrated Vietnamese director Tran Anh Hung, music videos from Vietnam's vibrant pop culture, and homemade video tours through Saigon, Hanoi, and Huế: these elements evoke nostalgia for Vietnamese visitors and an immersive introduction for others.
Joyce, Lai Rai’s manager and bartender, adds, “Everything that we do—the music, the visuals, the food, the wine—we just want to give our guests a snippet into Vietnamese culture in Vietnam, or bring it here to New York.”
The Lai Rai team has carved a portal into Hanoi's Old Quarter (the heart of street eating in Vietnam). In the midst of spring, the doors of Lai Rai are kept wide open and guests gather to lounge outside.
Wine bars are community spaces masquerading as indulgences. They transform into unintentional places of gathering—third spaces where people linger longer than the consumption requires. Lai Rai understands this magic. Creating not just a place to drink—but a portal to a collective experience—Lai Rai is a sum of its team: Vietnamese, European, and quintessentially New York.
This, perhaps, is how our stories survive: little by little, lai rai. Carried across generations—not through museums, but through moments of shared pleasure.